I don't like someone that thinks they are better then me. I may not be as smart as you in certain areas but I can certainly learn.

I don't like a drinker and a bar hopper

I don't like someone that can't take care of their personal hygiene

I can't stand a man that is lazy

I don't like someone who likes to fight

I’m not a racist but I’m not looking for an African-American relationship nor into married, gay or bisexual men.

Don't want someone that smokes/drinks/drugs, though I can Deal with light smokers a bit but for medical reasons I try not to have them around. Alcohol will and has always been a problem and I will not enter a relationship if you drink.

I don't like a man that is heavy or has a beer belly

Lies, secrets, games, Gay, bisexual, overweight, procrastinators, cheaters, control freaks either, jealousy, thief's, child molesters, rapists, or venereal diseases, married, men, w/ baggage. Drinkers & smokers is also a no-no for my relationships. 

Cheater or lady looker, if you can't be happy w/ me & feel you must look or to get ph.#'s, then I’m not worth your time. I want to find a man that is dedicated to me.

Please DON'T contact me if you are just looking for sex or a casual relationship and don't know what you want.

I don't like men that take advantage of others

I don't like players

I don't like it when he doesn't want to better himself

I don't like him to bug me for anything...ask 1 time and that's good enough for me.

I don't like a man that doesn't want kids....I have 3 and he will get along with them and love them as his own.

I don't like abusive men

I don't like a man to expect me to clean up after him

I don't like rude men

I hate when a man pushes religion on me....your welcome to believe but don't push it on me and my kids.

I don't like it when I’m not included when he wants to go to a friends or out with someone.

I don't like it when he feels the need to go out with the guys....I want a man that wants to stay home with me and the kids or take us out

Someone that talks too much and or repeats themselves (don't mind the talking as long as it is a well held conversation but I hate the rambling without saying anything)

Puts people down or talks behind their backs.... general GOSSIP

Someone rude, having to have the last word, getting bent out of shape over nothing.

Someone that doesn't answer you when you have asked a question or made a statement. (Acknowledgment of that comment that you heard it or to give an answer).

This maybe a bit harsh but if I have to raise you as well as my kids then that is a problem too. I’m not interested in someone who's not sure if he's really ready to make a commitment.

Hate someone that can't pick up after himself, don't like someone that can't pitch in to help with chores. 

Hate someone to not be able to trust me or to think I’m cheating. 

I hate someone talking with their mouth full. 

Hate the toilet seat up when you’re done.

I’m not interested in someone that is stingy. 

Picking your nose or blowing it without a tissue.

I don't mind a few cuss words here and there as it's kind of part of the "French word" vocabulary but I don't like the constant every other word cussing. "F" this and "F" that is not a word I like at all and I won't put up with it. I have children and

I want to keep my values for them positive.

I’m not going to say I’m not looking for you to be a dad to my kids because simply, if you take me on, then you take on my kids, we are a package deal. 

I hate to be belittled

I don't like my children not to be included.

Bad hygiene

I don't like someone that has to take hours to get ready to leave and is always primping to "look good"

Hate liars

Hate someone that would ever cheat on me,

I don't like someone that can't keep their being mad in control who is always mad either

I don't want someone to bottle their feelings up – feel free to tell me anything though I understand if you can’t talk about something.

I don't like someone that thinks of themselves as having to be the top of themselves in a group of people.

If in a group of people I hate it when they leave me out even though I’m right there.

Hate rudeness.

I don't like it when someone complains all the time about stupid things and then to top that off, they don't do something to fix it.

Don’t like it when someone can't take the blame for something that went wrong if it is their fault.

Hate when someone puts me down for having things that mean the world to me - will tell you more about this another time.

Hate it when he can't put me and kids before work.

I hate it when someone has to sleep all day other then to catch up on needed sleep,

I mean everyday day in and day out always in the bed or on the couch.

I don't like it when someone is always worrying about me - if I say I’m ok, don't keep asking.

In the religious matter I hate religion being pushed on me or being made to feel like there way is the only way.

I don’t like it when someone thinks of themselves as only a victim and can’t over come the issue to a point that it doesn’t have to reflect on another so deeply.

Can’t stand it when grudges are held so high that they can’t get past it and move on.

I don’t like my mate to be mean to others or myself

I don’t like someone who is stingy yet can’t manage their funds responsibly – I have been in the point when I was told what to do with the money.

I don’t like someone to think something isn’t good enough or doesn’t meet their standards.

Controlling people – I don’t consider myself controlling but I like to make sure bills are dealt with before fun. Also like to make sure that things are watched over and taken care of as it’s hard for me to trust others because this has put me in bad debt trusting others to control things.

Though I have only dealt with 2 people that act like this, I must tell you I don’t like hypochondriacs - someone who has a general disposition of sickness (fake) and is constantly treating the symptoms of their pretend illness

Again only had this a few times too but I also don’t like someone who’s too rowdy, vulgar or disrespectful behavior when "having fun."

Hate gambling – had someone whom took all our savings and blew it away

No to drugs, alcohol and smoking

Can’t stand friends always coming before my relationship

Don’t like someone being late all the time or even often

Don’t like my man flirting with other females or looking at them in a “I want to strip your clothing off” or “x-ray” mode, think you understand that

Don’t like when my man puts others down cause of the way they look or color of skin

Don’t like it when someone is allowed to do something but I’m not allowed to do same thing or makes them out to be able to do something better

Hate porn or even having my man looking at any type of close to or naked lady in pin up or in real life.

Don’t like someone that likes to kiss and tell

Don’t like someone that is addicted to something to the point that family slips away

I don’t like someone that I can’t depend on – when you say you will do something,  DO IT

Broken promises, if you can’t promise, then don’t

I’m not perfect at cleaning but I hate slobs

Don’t like someone that cusses like a sailor or is vulgar comments about sexual innuendos all the time

Not fond of pessimism

Only my roommate does this regularly but still something I don’t like political correctness... I can't stand someone who censors their thoughts and opinions with a politically correct agenda.

Someone that doesn’t take into account someone else’s feelings

I have had this way too much - can't stand someone who is sexually obsessive, I love to make love and talk about that more later but I can’t stand where we have to have sex all the time – there is kids around, just doesn’t happen anymore like that

And lastly for now - Infidelity - I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside a committed relationship. If you feel it’s that bad that you have to start flirting, kissing or even looking someplace else, let me know so we can work on things or end everything. I want to make you happy. 

What personal habits of others really irritate you?

Cleaning up after ones self is something I would say bothers me. I have 3 kids and hate to have to clean up after my man too. Hate to be told what to do and when to do it...you know the act. Complaining about anything and everything. Letting ones kids take control over and adult. Disrespect.

Embarrassing someone in front of others. Being Rude. Cussing every other word. Drinkers of any amount. Being late. Getting attention but not giving it back. Heck I’m sure there are a few that I can't think of at this moment. Being loud and obnoxious.

I MIGHT HAVE MORE TO COME.