What I'm looking for in a relationship


What he looks like & age

I can稚 say there's a specific man that I知 looking for, but to give you an idea; the things that turn me on about a man is blue or hazel eyes and blond hair to light brown/blondish. However if you have dark brown hair and eyes, that is great too.

About 5'8" to 6'10" and HWP

Ages of what I want are about 30yrs to 45yrs old.

Someone who is caring, honest, loyal, trusting as well as trustworthy, masculine, solid (trim is ok too), muscular (not a must), good looking, athletic, rugged (not a must), average.  

Someone who is fit. Want someone who is not bald. You must catch my eye, very good looking to me. I love a man in tight jeans. I love a man that wears his jeans well and not down to his knees...lol. Some say they have a gut and that's fine, just can't do major flab. (I love those cowboys and men in a uniform - such as MILITARY, ATTORNEY, and DOCTOR...lol)

I知 not into goatees or beards.

I知 looking for someone who is fit or close to it. I知 not asking you to fit the profile. I know what I知 looking for not willing to settle for any less.

 

Communication and attention

I知 looking for a man to pay attention to me and treat me great...I hate fighting. Great personality. Isn稚 going to leave me out of his circle of friends. Knows how to treat a lady right. I am looking for someone that is affectionate and willing to give his all. (As I can be a fast mover when interested). You must not be in fear of relationships and want kids as I have 3. If you don't like that then don't bother.

Can hold a conversation. I think if we can hold a conversation and there is no problems communicating then we should have it made. I want a man that isn't afraid to talk about how he feels. And if the need to cry, he's not in fear of showing his softer side.

 

Lies & secrets

I want someone that's not into lies and secrets. Willing to tell me everything and allow me to do the same as time permits.

 

Lady lookers & cheaters

He must not be a cheater or lady looker, if you can't be happy with me and feel you must look at others in such a way or to get phone numbers of others to call then I知 not worth your time. I want to find a man that is dedicated to me.

 I知 looking for serious men only.

 

My sole mate

I would like to say that I知 looking for a man that can be my friend, my best friend, my lover & my sole mate MOST OF ALL my future Prince and I his princess. I want to be your wife and you my husband if you池e the man for me.

 

Distance

I hope distance isn't a factor, USA isn't the only place men are located. I知 looking in the basic places: Australia, Netherlands, France, Germany, Canada, UK, Switzerland, Denmark, Greece, Norway, Russia, turkey, Finland, Luxembourg, Ireland, Poland, Sweden, Ukraine, New Zealand and Victoria but not every place else is out.  Not into anyone from the Middle East

 

Goals

He likes to make goals and make things happen

 

Family Oriented

Someone willing to make a commitment to an already made family. 

You must be willing to move if everything works out between us. Must be financially stable, to support a family of 5 & still have plenty of funds for other things. (Before you jump the gun 4 of us and 1 of you = 5 all together. Now there are house payments, car payments and utilities and don't forget that I would like us to have fun outings as a family....this is why I say with plenty of extra money.)

He must not mind if I want to go shopping with his money too....lol. Not scared to share it. I知 not gold digger but I want him to be able to do things and if wants to when it's right time to shower with gifts, there won't be reason for me to say, "Now we don't have money for that $75 bouquet of roses, why you spend it on that" - get the hint?

 

He is a true gentleman

I知 a touchy-feeling kind of person and love to be able to talk on the phone when not near each other. If you don't mind my hands all over you all the time when near each other then HERE I AM! 

I feel like I知 the one that all the nice guys pass by, not sure what the problem is either. Want him to notice me - though I知 not Barbie, my heart is full of GOLDEN LOVE to give to right person.

I do like to meet but don't like to rush something nice. I won't be in competition for a relationship, as I don't need a man in my life, however it would be nice to have someone special. 

I know how to do most automotive work and things around the house, so I don't need a man there but if you are willing to take a challenge, BRING IT ON!

I would love to throw leaves in the fall or snow in the winter, and pinching his butt when he walks in front of me. Playing in a bubble bath, going out to dinner, going to the mall just to look around, and just go to the ocean for the day. How about the mountains for the weekend? I like decorating a house and making it nice to live in.

Go to the movies, window shop, work on cars & computers, mountain climb, go on drives, horseback riding are just a few things I like to do, he must like to do these with me.

 

What are you like?

sensible, casual, flexible, energetic, calm, hard-working, persistent, soft-spoken, consistent, intelligent, charming, realistic, lusty, fun-loving, lively, warm, and conservative as well. A hopeless romantic?

 

Music

Loves country music.

 

Ex's

Please don't have other old flames that you are still hooked up on, I don't play games. 

 

 

 

You must LOVE kids! 

I知 looking for someone that's not in fear of getting into a LTR and getting close. 

 The sky's the limit if the chemistry is right. I won't compete for a relationship; I don't need a man in my life, but it would be nice to have someone special in it.

 Mr. Tolerable is good enough for me. Everyone is different so most of the above will not be on the right man for me but something close would be great for me or "good enough".

Are you willing to spoil me rotten? Then I want you too cause you will be treated like a king.

 




 

Updated 9-26-09